DISQUS

Conversations With Marva: Sunday’s Thoughts: What Is Sexy?

  • Cliv · 2 years ago
    For me..
    Sexy is...confidence whether you're in rags or a Brooks brothers suit..
    Its speaking from strength without being loud..
    Its direct eye contact without brashness...
    It's being honest or earnest without disrespect...
    CLEAN NAILS...and short ...without the pinky coke nail finger....**puke**
    Oh and and easy smile...GOd that's sexy..
  • gemini1968 · 2 years ago
    What's up girl?

    Confidence is sexy to me along with smarts. The person that doesn't have to blow themselves up or announce their presence all the time. I think it's sexy when a person knows who they are inside and out and are at peace with themselves.

    I don't have a specific physical prototype. It's just a vibe and a feel you get from the man or woman who accepts, loves and respects themselves and isn't threatened by anyone else.

    Now that's hot...

    Danielle
  • invisiblewoman · 2 years ago
    Ummmm....I think I want YOUR man, lol!
  • Regina · 2 years ago
    Add on that he must be able to be the Spiritual head of that household and be the man and husband that God says and called him to be and he will be perfect.
    We can then bottle him up and sell him to the starving female market that is looking high and low (sometimes too low) for a good man!
    Girl, We will be richhhh!!!

    Blessings
    Regina
  • cooper · 2 years ago
    It's hard to describe really. I know it when I see it. Of course their is an element of the physical and involves holding oneself a certain way without an attitude of arrogance. It also involves being smart, respectful and caring without being a pushover. Non controlling, and clean, yes very clean as I'm a bit of a germophobe.
  • MarvalusOne · 2 years ago
    Ooh...we all have such thoughts! (((smile))) But sexiness is an individual taste, I see...it can't be defined as a collective voice...I can appreciate that!

    Thank you all for your contribution!

    M
  • Slaus of O Hell Nawl · 2 years ago
    COnfidence.. pure swagger.

    how she looks at me, the way she sips her wine, the curve of her hips, the way she kisses my neck.

    :: shudder::

    Man i need to get home to my wife, like, NOW!!
  • MarvalusOne · 2 years ago
    Slaus - Swagger...that is a good word...

    M
  • clnmike · 2 years ago
    Oh man, I was going to do a blog about Sexy vs Beauty.
    SEXY trumps Beauty everytime.
    Beauty is strictly physical and dependent on society norms.
    Sexy is a combination of confindence, self esteem, attitude, style, intelligence, the way you carry your self, basically everything that does not fade over time.
    Beauty fades over time.

    Example of Sexy:
    Sommore the comedian
    Serena Williams
    Mary J Blige
    Regina King


    Beauty:
    Halle Berry
    Lena Horne
    Salli Richardson
    Alicia Keys
    Tyra Banks

    Now you have women who have both which is a win win. I like to call these women at the risk of offending, Stallions
    Stallions:
    Angela Basset
    Pam Grier
    Tamara Dobson
    Niomai Campbell

    That sums it up for me.
  • Lina M · 2 years ago
    Sexy to me..A strong, confident, beautiful, black man who loves himself and those around him. He has smooth skin and nice biceps and triceps. He knows everything his girl wants and needs and aims to please. He is a hardworker and loyal, and shows his appreciation for a good woman.
  • MarvalusOne · 2 years ago
    Mike - Do your blog post...I want to read it...I like your thoughts on sexy vs. beauty...good stuff!

    Lina - Welcome! I like how you think...and I so agree!

    M