DISQUS

Conversations With Marva: Sunday’s Thoughts: Frustrated, Again

  • Mike · 1 year ago
    "There are times when I want to say bump all my logic and go and call up some random person who would be down for whatever so I could get me a piece of the pie just for a brief moment. "

    Remind me to give you my number. :mrgreen:
  • MarvalusOne · 1 year ago
    Mike.... :lol:
  • Danielle · 1 year ago
    LMAO! Girl, get in line!
  • Cynthia · 1 year ago
    Girl, I understand.

    I have a guy like that myself but we were together for awhile. I know we could never see each other or be friends because I know I'd still be tempted. Married or not, I know that and I don't ever want to go down that road.
  • MarvalusOne · 1 year ago
    D - tee hee hee...

    Welcome Cynthia - Temptation is real and can't be ignored, even if the parties involved have moved on...
  • Vivrant Thang · 1 year ago
    Girl, you must have been eavesdropping on a convo a friend and I were having over the weekend! I am battling with something similar...not exactly the same but related. So just know you're not alone!
  • MarvalusOne · 1 year ago
    V - I think I must be driving my BFF crazy with this conversation...we seem to have it all the time! But I guess I need to get it out one way or another... :grin:
  • invisiblewoman · 1 year ago
    Ms. M; I hear you 100%

    I think it's harder for a black woman that is cerebral, but sometimes you have to go into mode and think like a man, even if it goes against your grain.

    "Hooking up" keeps you young, physically and mentally, even if it's on a subconcious level, and even if you get with someone you don't care that much about (I read this in a few articles). I'm just saying...once in a blue moon should be okay.

    So, do it for nothing else but for the sake of avoiding Botox! :oops:
  • MarvalusOne · 1 year ago
    IW - when I'm in my riding the fence mode, I come up with the exact same argument that you have made...and you are not the only one to say that to me. I tell ya, my BFF, I think, is going to kill me if I don't do something soon!
  • Darkbrotha · 1 year ago
    make the call baby girl :mrgreen:
  • MarvalusOne · 1 year ago
    DB - Now how did I know you would say that??? :roll:
  • Believer 1964 · 1 year ago
    Sex starts in the mind so try to extinguish the temptation and redirect your thoughts. Women settle for a quick fix, but that's not their heart's desire.