DISQUS

Conversations With Marva: I’m having a sleepless night…

  • cooper · 2 years ago
    No, I wouldn't but I think I'm rather apathetic about relationships, and lazy in regard to them. If I felt doubtful I'd just leave. One day that might change but for now eh - no I wouldn't waste the energy.
  • MarvalusOne · 2 years ago
    I guess it has to do with the Scorpio in me...and I'm sure it has to do with the control issues that I have...but I sure would...and would hate every second even though I would go through the whole process like a professional!

    Nice to see you!
  • Marcus Langford · 2 years ago
    I do watch 'Cheaters' every now and then; for some reason it is on the 'G4' channel for Comcast network. I am not sure how such a show ended up on a gaming channel, but whatever. I have seen the show many times and people spy on their mates and I believe if you have reason to suspect that something is going on, then I do not imagine it is a bad thing to dabble around a bit. At least if you find out there is nothing going on, then your mind can be put to rest and maybe even the relationship will get stronger as you realize there is no infidelity. In the same token, I guess you gotta be careful when it comes down to that spying as you may not be ready to face the truth. As Nick Cannon would say in one of his "Wild 'N' Out" skits: Gotcha B_tch!!!

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  • MarvalusOne · 2 years ago
    Ditto, Marcus, ditto...

    Thanks for dropping by...
  • Danielle · 2 years ago
    No I wouldn't go the "cheaters" route. I've seen friends who engaged in that behavior and it's disturbing and heartbreaking. I would be concerend about what the behavior said about me and who I am. I see where you are coming from though. We all make choices and hopefully we can all live with them.
  • MarvalusOne · 2 years ago
    Even though I would do it...it is disturbing and heartbreaking...I am the type of person who, if I suspect it, I need to know...but I would have to have some very strong suspicions to even go there, you know? The signs would have to be pretty clear for me to go "Alias" on him...but I most certainly would...

    I would much rather find out than continue to be made a fool of...that's just me...but I understand what you mean.

    Thanks for visiting...love your visits and comments!

    Marvalus
  • Rootzpoet · 2 years ago
    Wow that is some serious poetry you got there. Well written I could feel you.
  • Danielle · 2 years ago
    MarvalusOne. You are too funny! I love the "Alias" reference. LMAO!
  • MarvalusOne · 2 years ago
    Thanks...I was inspired by a certain Jamaican poet to start posting my poetry on my blog...(((smile)))...

    Marvalus
  • MarvalusOne · 2 years ago
    Danielle,

    Girl, I'm just crazy like that...it made me laugh too when I reread it...