DISQUS

Symphony · 11 months ago

I can't help you understand this one. I was hoping someone could help me understand. I don't know what his monthly child support was but its not as much as she was responsible for I'm sure. I think its rare that disadvantaged women used child support money to live a glam life. You have rent (if you didn't have a kid you could live in a smaller, cheaper place.) Daycare, child needs and when they get older they need clothes, etc. They want to go on field trips, they want to do things with their friends, they want to participate in activities. For men who have concerns document, take pictures, put the system on the women the way they did it to you. You can't lose your mind about it because 1- you should be out of the money anyway and 2-be concerned enough to fight for full custody. But I'm pretty #2 ain't going to happen with a lot of these guys who whine about child support.


As far as I'm concerned he didn't want to pay child support nor did he want or know how to be a father. You are right Marv, he didn't want this responsibility.

Sharon · 11 months ago

Some things can never be understood.
Are not meant to be understood.



If I could understand why he did that there would be something wrong with me.

regina · 11 months ago

Great post, After reading the story a few days ago I just shut down the computer. This makes totally no sense at all.
I agree with Symphony but I definitely co-sign Sharon... If I understood this mess something would be wrong with me.

Marvalus · 11 months ago

No he didn't want this responsibility, Symphony...and this trifling loser was only thinking of himself instead of this baby.

Marvalus · 11 months ago

You are so right Sharon...

Marvalus · 11 months ago

Ms. Regina...I keep reading this story and I keep shaking my head...I just can't imagine...I just can't even begin to imagine why.

BlackWomenBlowTheTrumpet · 11 months ago

Hello there,


Anyone who kills is mentally ill... there is NO WAY that anyone can convince me that an emotionally stable person will take another person's life. This man was clearly deranged. I do not blame the mother for any of this but I surely hope that our sistas who are in abusive relationships will TAKE HEED to these news storires... this one... the sister of Jennifer Hudson...there are so many examples out here that should cause an internal alarm to go off within some of the minds of some women who are constantly allowing these unstable, violent men in their lives.



I am sooo very sad to hear that this poor baby was so horribly treated...to death....



It is so tragic...

Marvalus · 11 months ago

You are so right...it is tragic, Rev. Lisa...


It is my hope also that sistas listen and pay attention to these stories and make whatever changes necessary to climb out of these toxic relationships...

Clnmike · 11 months ago

Hell is not hot enough for this low life, there is nothing to understand here other than the man is a murderer.

John · 11 months ago

I've been hearing a lot about this story lately, since it takes place in my hometown. It makes no sense at all and never will. This man needs to be put in jail for life and never let out.

Marvalus · 11 months ago

I hear you, Mike...

Marvalus · 11 months ago

John - It truly doesn't make sense...and I've stopped trying to make sense out of it.


There is a special place reserved for this person...and where he is going, hell is going to seem like a vacation spot.

tom · 11 months ago

Wow, I love your post, you give it like it is. I am glad I found this blog.


It is sad how people will do anything to get rid of their responsibilities and problems.



I look forward to reading your blogs

Marvalus · 11 months ago

Hey Tom...thanks for stopping by!


This story still blows my mind...and I agree with you; it is very sad that people run away from their responsibilities...this is an extreme case. And I hope a rare one.



Come back anytime!

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